My words one year ago 一年前留言

Dear all,

So it is the last "Mei-yee's hospital Update".

Your beloved & my deepest love--Mei-yee left this world and
reached the hands of God around 4:00pm this pm.

She passed away suddenly & peacefully like falling asleep on the bed.

She was OK when meeting friends at 3:00pm and am.

Professor met her OK and blood test also showed OK.

Doctors was surprised by the sudden.

In fact, Mei-yee was getting weaker these days.

Having explained & warned by Mei-yee, I always advise friends &
 family trying to treat her well if really loving her.

No response at all after more than 1/2 hour emergency rescue, CPR,....

When I rushed to QM, I knew she has gone no matter how hard the medical team tried.
I have to accept the fact ......

Mei-yee has expressed she likes this way of dying--w/o pain, w/o any unwillful feeling.
God completely heard her prayer.

For this reason, I didn't feel sorry for not watching her passing away.

She knew we will be very sorry if  watching her die and
with doctor's torture from rescue under consciousness.

She loves us and wants us feeling good & happy.

Friends, you & I are really blessed to have Mei-yee
although you may not completely agree.

At least, I truly feel.

Thank God for knowing her on 9.3.1991 and marrying her on 27.5.1995.

She has really coloured my life in these 18 years like her favourite hobby--western painting.

It has been a harsh road for her since she got the disease.

It was my pleasure to walk with her so far although I did that poorly sometimes.

And with you, a major support so far.

Now, it is time to say goodbye. Her spirit (& laugh) will never fade  in our hearts.

Don't forget: Mei-yee hope to see us with joy in our life, by God, all the time.

Don't worry about me, I will be OK, just taking some time.

yours sincerely,
John
30.8.2010